I can never truly hate someone I love(d)...hated the way things turned out, but we don't always get what we want.
I still have love for them,
just at a different level.
I think the hardest thing is moving on when
you still love someone intensely.
When loving them causes you to dislike
& lose yourself it's time to save you.
We often think love includes
continually sacrificing yourself for your other...most times they will
My mother gave me a measurement that I try to keep...in my despair
she asked (said), "Who nailed you to a cross to save [someone] and what
made you 'God' enough to think you can? You better come down from there
and give it to God, 'cause it's bigger than you!"
It's not easy....but necessary!